I wonder sometimes, if I'm the way I am because of you. Because I loved you so much. Your heart, and your sarcasm, and your wit. I wonder if you brought the beginnings of that out of me. I can't remember your birthday anymore. I can't remember if you'd be 27 or 28 now. I can't even imagine your face anymore. That kind of thing scares me. I can remember your hair sometimes...if I don't end up blending your shaggy blond waves with Brandon's dark curls. But your face is so faded, I can't bring out the details. I can't remember if your eyes were green or blue. I can't remember if you had any scars. I can't even remember your middle name. I feel like you're fading out of my mind like a dream, and one day I'll wake up, and never think of you again.
I wish you could be here now. I wish you could meet my friends, and I could call on shitty days. I wish I could've watched you get married. Back then I don't really think I grasped what I was going to miss out on. You know, when I was little, I imagined you walking me down the aisle? I thought of that tonight. Of how the three men I ever imagined on that aisle are gone now.
There's this belief that time heals all wounds, but you won't forget someone that important to you. And its so untrue. I can feel memories fading away. Its gradual, and sometimes I don't realize that I'm losing something until I try to picture it. I feel guilty sometimes, when I realize how long its been since I thought of you. But then again, its life. Thinking of you every day would be painful. I wish that I at least had your family. But your brother has been gone for longer than you have...and Missy....man she got everything from your mother. God. I don't remember if your mother was even alive when I stopped checking in. But after Missy, there wasn't much point. Your mom wasn't a huge fan of anyone you knew. Not really sure why though.
In any case...this whole thing is just a long ass way of saying I miss you. Because really man, I do. Every day, even if I don't think of you. And for all I know, we woulda parted ways soon and never spoken again. But as it stands, you were torn from me way too early, and I want that time back. I hope you're happy and at peace wherever you are. You deserve it.